Lapho umfana uMindie Kaplan ebona ukuthi uzomkhokhela ukuhlolwa kwakhe okusheshayo ngosuku lwesibili (edla endlini yakhe), wamangala kancane.
U-Kaplan uthe: “Ngifuna ukwazi ukuthi lokhu kusho ukuthi’ ukuthenga isidlo sakusihlwa kusho ukuhlala kuze kuhlwe’ yini,” kusho uKaplan, ohlala e-Chelsea.Ungumaketha wenkundla yezokuxhumana kanye nomsunguli wochungechunge lwe-podcast nevidiyo iMaleRoom.
Laba bobabili bavumile ukuhlangana endaweni yokuhlola ngokushesha e-Upper West Side.Bathi besalinde umphumela baqonda kwamakhelwane beyophuza.
“Kunomgodi esiswini sami, ‘Ngidlala kanjani?’” kusho uKaplan onqabile ukudalula iminyaka yakhe.“Wayefana nokuthi, 'Bheka ifoni yakho.Ingabe ukhona umphumela?'”
Uthe: “Ngathi uhlelo lokusebenza belungasebenzi ngamtshela ukuthi imiphumela yami ibambezelekile.”Ngalendlela, ubusuku baphela.
Abanye abantu baseNew York bazokwenza konke abangakwenza ukuze baxhume, okuhlanganisa nokuxhumanisa ukuhlolwa okusheshayo ngaphambi koSuku Lwezithandani, okungabiza kufika ku-$129 kuye ngomshwalense wakho.Kodwa ochwepheshe baxwayisa ngokuthi ukuhlolwa kuzosebenza kuphela uma kwenziwa ngendlela efanele.
UDara Cass, udokotela wezokwelapha eziphuthumayo e-Columbia University Medical Center eNew York City, uthe lokhu kusho ukuthi ukuvalelwa yedwa kumele kwenziwe kuqala.
“Uma uhlela ukujola okokuqala ngqa ngoSuku Lwezithandani, angakanani amathuba okuthi elinye iqembu lihlukanise bonke abangani, umndeni kanye nendawo yokusebenza?”Kusho uCass."Lokhu kusho ukuthi lezi zivivinyo zizoqinisekisa abantu ukuthi umuntu akanalo igciwane."
Ukuhlolwa kwangaphambi kokuphola okusheshayo kungase kube nenjongo emtholampilo kunenhlanganisela, kodwa abantu abaningi abathandanayo bakholelwa ukuthi lena ukuphela kwendlela yokungena kulo mkhakha.
Lapho u-Jonah Feingold eqala ukwethuka, waphakela u-popcorn nokudla okulula emzini wakhe okokuqala ngqa.
"Ingqondo yami yaqala ukuzulazula phezu kwegciwane," kusho uFeingold, 30, ohlala yedwa eGreenpoint.Ngabona ukuthi kufanele ngikhulume nowesifazane owafika endlini yami ngalobo busuku ezobuka ifilimu nami.”
Wabiza usuku lwakhe ngothisha wasenkulisa yaseManhattan ohlala nabazali bakhe, futhi wabaluleka ngokushesha ukuthi bahlole ngokushesha ngaphambi kokuhlangana.
UFeingold, ongumdidiyeli wamafilimu nophinde abe ngumhleli we-Seeing Other People, uthe: “Sobabili sifuna ukuhlolwa ukuze singazikhathazi ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi sihlale ndawonye.”Ubudlelwano.
Nakuba kungekho muntu owabelane ngokusebenza kwabo ngokomzimba, u-Feingold uthe babegcwele ukuzethemba ekuthumeleni imilayezo yombhalo usuku lonke ukuze bethule uhambo, okuhlanganisa nokuthumelelana izithombe ozishuthe zona ngesikhathi sokuhlolwa kwe-inthanethi.
Bagcina ngokuwathela endishini eyodwa yama-popcorn, futhi yebo, ukuqabulana okuthile kwakuhilelekile-konke kungenalutho.
Uthe: “Ngicabanga ukuthi kufanele ucabange ngezinga ofuna ukuphila ngalo kwezothando, ngisho noma wenza konke ukuze uhlale uphephile.”
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Isikhathi sokuthumela: Feb-24-2021